1. People hate making mistakes and try their best to avoid it. So do I. Usually, when I make mistakes, I will feel frustrated and helpless. Those setbacks often depressed me for a while. However, eventually, I will tell myself that I must find some way to break the deadlock. During the process of figuring out the problems, I will obtain quite a few experiences and knowledge. Also, I can find out my weaknesses and improve them.
2. To me, mistakes just like the symptoms of illness. They can reflect my lack of ability and the disadvantages mine works just like the symptoms can reflect the ill of our bodies. Through making mistakes, we can understand ourselves better and suit the remedy to the case.
3. After listening to Prof. Pausch’s speech, I got some different views when we deal with those so called” setback” and “difficulty”. The idea which impressed me most is that the brick walls are there for a reason: they let us prove how badly we want things. The walls exist for those who are not want things badly enough. The outlook did broaden my mind. From now on, whenever I meet some frustration, I can be faithful to myself and faced with problems confidently.
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1. Like what you said, I really hate myself for making mistakes because it always feels bad when I discover I've done something wrong or incorrect. I try very hard for avoiding that kind of you-are-a-big-loser feelings would terribly surround me. The feeling is horrible and it reduces my self-confidence a lot. However, since I realize there's no one would not make mistakes in their lifetime even saints or other wise ancestors. I become more open-minded on facing my own incorrect decisions. I accept it, and think deeply from the incident. Stop blaming or regretting on myself because that's totally useless and waste of time. Calmly and carefully rethink, try to get conclusion and learn from it. My mistakes would become more tolerable since I view them as the valuable chance to learn of lifetime.
2.In my definition, the mistakes we make are like the best reference books of the world. The knowledges from it are priceless and no one could tell. Mistakes help people to become knowledgeable and well-trained on handling tough challenges and it's also like a reminder to avoid people themselves making the same mistakes again.
3. After listening to prof. Pausch's speech, I change my viewpoints a little bit on making mistakes. Just like what he said, "Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted." It's extremely correct that people always have the chance to learn when they did things wrong and tried to make up for it. People gain experiences from dealing with those mistakes they've done and the uncomfortable feelings they got from mistakes would transform into the best nutrition for people to absorb then grow up.
Just like what you have mentioned, mistakes are the best reference books in the world because we can absorb experiences from it and make up the shortage of our ability. When we obtain something easily, we may not consider if there are any mistakes needed to be fixed and tend to be over confident. As a result, our weakness may be buried and subtly influence our future performance.
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